Facilitator stance is not technique. It is the set of small decisions that signal to everyone in the room what this convening is for and how it will be conducted. Walking in early, greeting people by name, asking one specific question instead of a general one — these set the tone before the agenda starts.
Decision protocols are the structures you reach for when a discussion stalls, fragments, or veers. Four to know cold: (1) Affinity → Pattern — silent sticky-note grouping followed by named themes. (2) Consultancy — one person frames a dilemma, the room listens, then offers framings. (3) Look-Around — quick structured turns to surface what's been unsaid. (4) Decide–Defer–Discard — used to close out a list of ideas.
Single-page reference card for the four MPLP decision protocols.